MY STORY
As a coach, I’ve specialized in working with men in their 40s, 50s, and 60s who have either never been married, or (more likely) who have been married and divorced. During my work with these men, I’ve seen a trend across many clients that simply don’t know how to meet and approach women in Every Day Life. Some men have simply forgotten over time, while others have become so accustomed to dating apps and online dating that they never learned this skill. Clearly, many men are missing out on the simple but extraordinarily best way to meet and date fabulous women.
I have written The Short Book Series and developed this web site where you can download free information to show you a proven pathway to meet and date the women you encounter in the course of your Every Day Life. The books and web site provide a comprehensive alternative to dating apps. I filter other advice you may have read or heard, and based upon years of research and experience–distill the essential concepts necessary for your success.
If you’ve used dating apps and had nightmare experiences, or simply don’t like using dating apps–these resources are for you. Guys in college that never understood or developed an approach to women–these resources are for you. As previously stated, men who find themselves in their 40s, 50s, 60s, now divorced, widowed, or never married– these resources are for you!
I provide straightforward, bite-sized coaching advice–guidelines and tips you can understand easily, digest quickly, and apply tonight or this weekend. My advice may seem pretty simple, but that’s because I’ve honed these approaches after extensive research and watching clients make many mistakes over many years.
Consider me your wingman, whispering to you about how you can have an extraordinarily better experience meeting and dating women. If you want a more personal coaching experience, reach out to me by applying here for One on One Coaching to change your dating life forever!
What my clients are saying...
Working with Coach Thomas completely transformed my dating life! I used to struggle with meeting women in everyday situations and felt stuck relying on dating apps. Despite being a perfect gentleman, my approach just wasn’t working. Coach Thomas quickly pinpointed what I was doing wrong, even though it seemed normal to me. He helped me refine how I approached conversations, confidently ask for dates, and thoughtfully plan and follow up after them. His guidance made all the difference, and I now feel empowered to connect with women authentically without apps by using the EDL approach. I highly recommend Coach Thomas to anyone ready for real change and authentic connections with women!
Coach Thomas dramatically improved my dating life. I never struggled to get a first date, but I was constantly ghosted or dumped afterward, leaving me frustrated and confused. I couldn’t figure out if it was my date plans, follow-ups, or something else. Coach Thomas helped me identify where I was going wrong and taught me how to meet women who were better matches for lasting connections. Most importantly, he showed me how to keep the spark alive beyond the first date. His advice has been invaluable!
I was skeptical about hiring a dating coach—it felt strange, and I worried about feeling embarrassed if people found out. But when I connected with Coach Thomas, his genuineness and analogies comparing a dating coach to a golf coach or financial advisor made me realize it was the right step.
His new book, Guys: Stop Using Dating Apps, is a game-changer, but the 1-on-1 coaching truly set him apart. Before an important date, he responded to my text immediately and even jumped on a call to ensure I was prepared. Now, I’ve found a wonderful woman, and our mutual attraction and respect are exactly what Coach taught me to prioritize.
After losing my wife of 27 years to cancer, I struggled with the idea of dating again. I deeply wanted companionship but couldn’t imagine using dating apps—it felt impersonal and so far removed from how I began dating my wife 30 years ago. Coach Thomas understood my challenges and guided me through his 14-day EDL program, which was exactly what I needed. He helped me rediscover how to connect authentically with women I meet in Every Day Life. With just one follow-up session a month later, I’m now meeting wonderful women naturally. I’m grateful for his support and highly recommend him.
After struggling with dating apps, I knew they weren’t for me. My old college buddies and I tried them, but the process felt distant, and the women we met rarely matched their profiles. I'm only 26, but even after landing a great job, I found myself spending New Year’s Eve and Valentine’s Day alone, watching my friends enjoy life with their girlfriends. That’s when I turned to Coach Thomas. His 14-day Every Day Life (EDL) program was the best! The insights, both big and subtle, he shared during our calls made all the difference. Thanks to our 14 days of 1x1 personal telephone calls, my dating life has completely changed!
Coach Thomas saved my life! As someone who felt hopeless in dating because I was overweight and not the best-looking, I thought I’d never find love. He assured me it wasn’t about looks but how I projected myself. His 14-day EDL program gave me the ability to meet women naturally. Now, I’ve found the woman of my dreams who loves me for who I am!
After a short, failed marriage and a brief, horrible experience with dating apps, I felt overwhelmed re-entering the dating world. Juggling a job and raising kids, I didn’t have the time or patience for apps, which felt like a second job and rarely led to good dates. Coach Thomas was a game-changer. He helped me regain confidence and taught me how to meet genuine women in everyday life. His guidance made dating feel natural again, and I’m so grateful for his help!
I’m honored Coach Thomas asked me to write a testimonial for his coaching web site and endorse his new book Guys: Stop Using Dating Apps. As one of his few female clients, I can attest to his exceptional coaching. He tailored the 14-day EDL program to fit my needs as a woman while emphasizing principles he teaches men—like creating emotional connections and avoiding chasing. These lessons work for everyone! Thanks to Coach Thomas and his personalized 1-on-1 guidance, I found the man of my dreams. His approach truly transforms lives!
Coach Thomas was instrumental in helping me get my girlfriend back after a bad breakup. We had been together for a while, but I stopped doing the things necessary to keep the relationship strong. Coach Thomas helped me through his EDL program, which not only taught me how to meet women naturally but also applied the same principles to reconnect with my ex. While I worked on getting her back, I was also learning how to approach relationships with confidence—ultimately getting her back without chasing her. I’m grateful for Coach Thomas!
Coach Thomas completely turned my dating life around! While all my friends were in long-term relationships, I felt stuck, unable to meet women without wasting time on disappointing dating apps. Coach Thomas showed me how to approach everyday life in a way that made me open and inviting to meaningful connections. Thanks to his guidance, I started meeting attractive, interesting women naturally, got first dates, and am now in a happy, long-term relationship for the first time in my life!
Coach Thomas completely changed my approach to dating in New York. The scene felt overwhelming, and I struggled to meet quality women—those I met in bars felt either unattractive or out of my league. With his practical advice on confidence and connecting naturally, I became far more sociable and comfortable approaching women anywhere. Thanks to his guidance, I’ve built a lasting relationship with an amazing woman I’d never have had the courage to approach before. Truly life-changing!
Coach Thomas worked with me to break out of the friend zone. For years, I found myself in friendships with women who involved me in their lives but shut me down whenever I tried to make things romantic. Coach Thomas taught me how to manage early interactions and dates to set the right tone for a romantic connection. Thanks to his guidance, I’ve found a wonderful woman who wants to share all aspects of life with me. I’m incredibly grateful for his help!